a good parent-children relationship should be set up on the basis mutual understanding and respect. parents can not impose their ideas on their children.

　　they should treat their children as independent individual. it is advisable for the parents to learn to listen to children’s ideas and encourage them to think on their own rather than decide everything for the children. on the other hand, children should listen to their parents’ advice for they’re more experienced.

　　try to be understanding when there is disagreement with parents. always keep one thing in min---whatever they do comes from their love for us. it is necessary children to exchange ideas with parents from time to time so that the gap between parents and children will be narrowed.